mood: playful wrestling with your dom that turns into them pinning you down face first and fingering you while you whimper and squirm in pleasure
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LB and I had a fun night last night 😍💕
drakotts asked:
pillowfort-io answered:
Yes, we plan to allow NSFW content with very few restrictions. I don’t have any particular insight into why Tumblr is making this decision but if I had to guess, it’s because allowing NSFW content conflicts with their need for the site to be marketable and safe for advertisers– Pillowfort on the other hand plans to derive most of its revenue from user subscriptions, meaning that we will be beholden to our actual userbase and not outside advertisers and can therefore have more leeway in what we can host.
I will be on Pillowfort as soon as I can be
PSA
Some people really suck at choking others during sex.
Stop pressing down with your palms on the fucking windpipe.
Squeeze at the sides.
You want to decrease blood flow not cut off air supplies.
sent to tumblr jail for *squints* female presenting nipple crimes
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
It can be anything from sending a text “Give me three deep breaths” to “clench hard for me” to “send me a selfie after you’re dressed for work” to “be mindful with your lunch selection at the restaurant” to “let me know when you’re home safely” to “you’ve had a rough one at work today, when you get home I want you to kneel and settle for me for 5 minutes” to “I want you under the covers no later than 10PM tonight.” The hundred and one little daily reminders that “this is not a ‘normal’ relationship.”
Ooops, forgot one of the most potent: a simple text reading “You are in my thoughts.” That might not seem like much of a “tug” compared to the others, but it serves the most important purpose of all: reminding the other person that you are “present.”
Leash tugs are actually one of my favorite aspects of D/s. It’s one of those little things, one of the things that aren’t like a whole dramatic DUN DUN DUN type scenario.
It’s tiny, gentle, subtle. I love them so much.
Exactly. Impossible to represent visually in a Tumblr GIF, which is why our dashes are flooded with the “dramatic DUN DUN DUN” imagery, usually centered around the kinky fuckery. Which is why far too many think that’s what D/s is. It’s not; it’s those tiny, subtle, resonant tugs on the leash.
please remember D/s is an agreed upon fiction.
You are 2 equals agreeing to play a game with each other, where the together beforehand you set the rules. If the rules are unsafe, unfun to a degree it causes you to genuinely not enjoy things, or triggering in any way, you need to tell this to your partner. This is literally what safewords are for.
And when I mean tell it to your partner, I mean “I’m not gonna do this anymore if this continues.” Bullshit like “I make all the rules and your concerns are nothing” is fine when it’s dirty talk, or to something minor you enjoy being denied, BUT IF IT’S ACTUALLY IMPORTANT IT NEEDS TO CHANGE.
Otherwise, that person is not someone worth being with. Period.
Guys
A) I’ve lost 30lbs so there might be more pictures soon 😍😍
B) LB proposed to me a few weekends ago so there’s that
